The Blessed Life (17): In Our Home-A Supernatural Generation| Pastor Mark Harrell | Play/Download

​The Blessed Life In Our Home
A Supernatural Generation
Goal Build a culture in the home stronger than the culture in the world
Proverbs 22:6 Start children off on the way they should go, and even
5 questions for a Supernatural Generation
1) Am I parenting (mentoring) by convenience?
when they are old they will not turn from it. NIV
Convenient parenting can brainwash kids and push them away
2) Do I have a culture dashboard for my home?
Are we a media centered family, or a relationship centered family?
Gauges for TV music, cell phone, computer, friends
3) Who owns their heart?
Peers are drawing them away
Culture is puling them away.
You as the parent, (mentor) "Lean into the relationship"
James 1:19 My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone
should be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to
become angry" NIV
Time is investing with experiences.
Whoever owns their heart, has the most authority in their life.
4) Am l going through the windows of the heart?
Malachi 4:6a"He will turn the hearts of the parents to their children, and
the hearts of the children to their parents...." NIV
5) How am I communicating my values?
You teach what you know, but you impart who you are.
a) Establish a family covenant
b) Build covenant friends.
c) Get them around to hear the echoes of others with your values

The Blessed Life (16): In Our Home - Uncommon Communication | Pastor Mark Harrell | Play/Download

Romans 12:2 "Don't copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think.  Then you will learn to know God's will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect." NLT

Four Levels of Communication:

1. Surface Communication
2. General Information
3. Deep Feelings
4. Deep Needs

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Four Barriers to Communication:

1. Withdrawal
2. Escalation
3. Belittling
4. False Belief

UNCOMMON COMMUNICATION:

• Matthew 12:36-37 MSG
• With your words you create the world around you.
• "The single biggest problem in communication is the illusion that it has taken place."
  George Bernard Shaw

1. Praise
   Proverbs 25:11 NIV
   
2. Thanksgiving
   Proverbs 18:21-22 NIV
   
3. Affection
   Jeremiah 31:3 NLT
4. Encouragement
   Ephesians 4:29 NIV
   
5. Kindness
   Proverbs 15:1 NIV
   
6. Truth in Love
   Ephesians 4:15 NLT
   It is said of Jesus in John 1:14 that He was full of TRUTH and GRACE.
   Truth without graces is just mean.
   Grace without truth is meaningless.
   When you have truth and grace it is medicine.
   
7. Prayer
   Psalm 16:8-9 NIV
   

The Blessed Life (15): In Our Home | Guest Mike Ware| Play/Download

​The Blessed Life In Our Home
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"6 Secrets of a Happy Marriage"
Pastor Mike Ware
Philippians 2:2 NLT "Make me truly happy by agreeing wholeheartedly
with each other, loving one another, and working together with one heart
and purpose.'
Six Secrets of a Happy Marriage and Relationship
1. It takes COMMUNICATION
Proverbs 13:17 TLB
Amos 3:3 NKJV
2. It takes CONSIDERATION
Ephesians 4:2 NLT
3. It takes COMPROMISE
1 Corinthians 13:5 TLB
4. It takes COURTSHIP
Proverbs 5:19 NLT
Ecclesiastes 9:9 TLB
5. It takes COMMITMENT
Malachi 2:6 NLT
6. It takes CHRIST
Philippians 4:13 NKJV

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II Corinthians 13:11-14

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